A good day


Sometimes a good day starts as any ordinary one. You wake up feeling tired, you feed the dog, you struggle with the kid to get him dressed, you go to work, you stop for groceries, you come back home; it's afternoon, but it feels like it should be bedtime. And as you are putting your bags on the kitchen counter, you hear a knock on the door and you go answer it to find the woman who grew up in your house on your front porch, her daughter standing beside her.

It is the eve of the woman's eightieth birthday, and she is wondering if it would be okay to come in. Of course, you say, of course, and you invite them in, and you show them around, and she says oh that’s where my grandparents used to sleep (now your son’s room), and this closet? That used to open into the dining room. And this used to be my bedroom (now your own), and this space right here is where we used to keep the Maytag on wheels - because they weren't built-in back then. And that towering oak tree in the front? That tree used to be the size of the dogwood growing next to it when I was a little girl. And this, she says, this is the house I brought my daughter home when she was born - now standing by her side, with a grown daughter of her own.

You’re told this house was always filled with laughter and happiness. This was always a happy house, she says. And she can tell you love the house as much as she did, and she is grateful, relieved. And your eyes fill with tears, happy tears, and you hug, and you think, man, I am so lucky. This is a good house, your house. This is home. This is a good day.

Comments

  1. i love this post! i grew up in a house built in 1741 in connecticut. over the years we have had many people stop by who used to live in the house. it makes me feel so comforted to know how many people have loved our home. last summer, when i wasn't home, a man stopped by our house and brought my parents photos of the way it looked in the 1920s, 30s, and 40s. he was too overwhelmed by emotion to even step into the house...anyway...all this to say your house is lucky to have you, so glad you've made it so beautiful!

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  2. ohhhhhh....the best story every. i totally got chills reading your post...and i'm so happy you had that wonderful visit :)

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  3. beautiful...made me cry!

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  4. that story just made my day. :)

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  5. what a fantastic day! Thanks for sharing! xo

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  6. Thank you all for the comments... This just happened last week and I am still reveling in it... So glad you enjoyed the post.
    -maria

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  7. What a great story! The woman who previously owned our house passed away, but many of her elderly friends in the neighborhood walk by and tell us she would love what we've done with the place ... especially the garden. Feels good. (Our front porches are very similar! :-)

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  8. Wow, wow, wow ... I love this story. We're looking to buy our 1st home, and it will definitely be an older one that needs TLC. You're whole blog is just lovely.

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  9. How lucky you are to have heard the story of your home! I live in a 1937 cape cod and would love to know it's story. What a wonderful story you have about your home.

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  10. Beautiful story. I grew up in an old 1800s farmhouse, and we too have had people stop by to relive old memories of their time spent there. One elderly woman said her aunt and uncle lived there during the Great Depression, and whenever she visited she was amazed by the amount of food they had. At her uncle's farm they had a full table where everyone ate their fill. At her own house, she and her siblings ate bread with ketchup for dinner while her parents went without. She wept at the memory of her parents' quiet sacrifice. I will never forget listening to her story. She said that for her, our house represented wealth and a full belly. Even as a child her story made me count all those blessings that children often take for granted. Now I have an old house of my own, and I love that it had a long history before me and will hopefully have a long one after me.

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  11. I really like your site; it has inspired me to try it. Your home is lovely and I first saw it on design*sponge. Oh, and how can you consider selling any longer after such a moving visit from it's previous owner?

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